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Retreats
As I Am, a retreat for men, centered on the teachings of Jesus Christ, helps men discover and develop their identity, mature in their masculinity, and heal emotional wounds.
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Hear what participants have to say about the retreat
Sheri L. Dew:
"There is a direct relationship between how we feel about Jesus Christ and how we see ourselves.
We cannot increase our devotion to the Savior without also obtaining a greater sense of purpose, identity, and conviction."
“As I Am” is a healing retreat, presented by Discover Identity™ and its men’s organization Men of Good Will™. It is designed for all men who desire to grow and become the best men they can be. This multi-faith retreat is consistent with the teachings and example of Jesus Christ, while promoting identity, fraternity, and a purposeful life vision. At the same time “As I Am” is not a religious retreat promoting any particular ideology.
This retreat was created and is presented by a group of men (The Men of Good Will) with many years of experience facilitating experiential retreats and groups, as well as coaching individual men in growth and healing. It is open to any man age 18 and older seeking to discover and create a stronger sense of self by facing his obstacles, to be the man he and God envision.
As I Am, is different from other healing programs that often begin by asking “What’s wrong with you?” Instead, at As I Am we begin with “What’s right about you and what is your vision of the future?" From that starting point we explore the obstacles that get in the way of achieving your vision and ways of growing beyond your obstacles; frequently referencing the example and teachings of Jesus Christ as an important part of any solution.
This retreat is more than an instructional conference, it is an experiential program, with facilitated activities designed to help you safely and actively explore your conscious and unconscious blocks, gaining awareness of your beliefs, emotions, and behaviors along the way. You will be provided with tools to make the retreat experience a reality in your daily life, including greater authenticity, and freedom from behaviors and beliefs that previously held you back from achieving your goals.
Topics Covered at the Retreat
Identity
Above all, this retreat is about identity. We invite you to go beneath labels,
titles, roles, accomplishments, and shame, and ask,
“Who am I?"
“Who am I really?”
After learning tools, identifying and clearing away obstacles and forming answers to that question, you are encouraged to look at your relationships. You will learn to relate intimately, and clearly with others by asking,
“Who are you?”
Finally, we challenge you to envision your identity in the community, by asking,
“Who am I as part of God’s creation?”
Testimonials
Doug
This retreat changed me. What happened on the retreat was even more than I could have hoped for...
I made more progress in those couple of days than I had in 9 years.
I feel reborn, rejuvenated, and recommitted to my desire to love and follow and serve God and Christ.
Bill
This was a life changing and spiritual experience for me...
It was a memorable experience, a retreat that is unique, uplifting and rewarding.
I gained a new understanding of masculinity by following Christ's teachings and I encourage all to look and step into a new way of healing. Your reward will be greater than your investment.
Pricing
$490 - Early Bird (Fall $570)
Spring - Register by January 31st, 2024
Fall - Register by June 30th, 2024
$590 - Regular Registration (Fall $650 )
$520 - Brother Discount (Fall $600)
Save $70 when you register with a friend
As I Am was first produced in 2017 and is offered several times annually. It is also available for groups seeking to sponsor it in their existing communities. Check the Events page for the next available opportunity to attend As I Am or contact us through this website to discuss sponsoring a retreat in your area.
Upcoming Retreats
Fri, Apr 26Location is in Coalville, UtahApr 26, 2024, 8:00 AM – Apr 28, 2024, 5:00 PMLocation is in Coalville, UtahCome discover your true identity and develop your masculinity through Christ's example.
Thu, May 09ProvoMay 09, 2024, 6:30 PM – 9:00 PM MDTProvo, 550 N University Ave, Provo, UT 84601, USAHave you ever been swimming in positivity? Curtis Swenson, a.k.a. the Thought Coach will lead us through the experience of an Affirmation Bath. When it's over you may still have dirt under your fingernails, but your hands and the rest of you will never look or feel better.
Fri, Sep 20SmithfieldSep 20, 2024, 8:00 AM – Sep 22, 2024, 5:00 PMSmithfield, Smithfield, UT 84335, USACome discover your true identity and develop your masculinity through Christ's example.
Thu, Apr 11Provo Public LibraryApr 11, 2024, 6:30 PM – 9:00 PM MDTProvo Public LibraryTo love and be loved. Isn't that what we all want more than anything else in life. The puzzle is that before I can truly love someone else, and receive that love in return, I have to love myself. Come join us to explore how to truly love yourself in an unselfish way.
Multiple DatesWed, Apr 10West HavenApr 10, 2024, 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM MDTWest Haven, West Haven, UT, USAWalking out of the darkness into the light . . . with brothers beside you
Sun, Mar 24Virtual EventMar 24, 2024, 3:00 PM – 4:00 PM MDTVirtual EventCome learn about this groundbreaking men's retreat. This is a come and go event.
Thu, Mar 14Provo Public LibraryMar 14, 2024, 6:30 PM MDT – Mar 15, 2024, 9:00 PM MDTProvo Public LibraryIt's not about being perfect. It's about being whole, and that place of wholeness is a sacred place. Come join the Men of Good Will as we explore how we can become more complete and integrated men, better able to navigate the ups and downs of life.
Thu, Feb 08Provo Public LibraryFeb 08, 2024, 6:30 PM – 9:00 PM MSTProvo Public LibraryIt is said, "tis better to give than to receive," and yet the ability to receive, particularly love is also a gift that we give to ourselves, and others. Come find out how.
Sun, Jan 14Virtual EventJan 14, 2024, 2:00 PM – 4:00 PM MSTVirtual EventCome learn about this groundbreaking men's retreat
Thu, Jan 11Provo Public LibraryMan Talk - January 2024 "What's My Why? Discover Your Mission and Purpose." presented by Mark DaytonJan 11, 2024, 6:30 PM – 9:00 PM MSTProvo Public LibraryWhy do I do, what I do? Do I do things out of habit, or do I do things with purpose that supports my mission in life and ultimately, who I am. Author and coach, Mark Dayton will present this topic and lead a lively and insightful discussion. Join us and start your New Year off with intention.
Thu, Jan 04ProvoJan 04, 2024, 7:00 PM – 8:30 PMProvo, 2717 Edgewood Dr, Provo, UT 84604, USAIt is easy to let our emotions lead us to tell stories in our heads. Do those stories create problems for us?
Thu, Dec 28Sabaidee Thai CuisineDec 28, 2023, 6:30 PM – 9:00 PM MSTSabaidee Thai Cuisine, 250 W State St, Lehi, UT 84043, USAYou are the best present that you can give to yourself and to others. And yet how often do we think of ourselves like the Little Drummer Boy, with no gift to give? Curtis Swenson, "The Thought Coach" will lead us in uncovering all that we have to offer to ourselves and the world.- Thu, Dec 14Provo Public LibraryDec 14, 2023, 6:30 PM – 9:00 PM MSTProvo Public LibraryYou are the best present that you can give to yourself and to others. And yet how often do we think of ourselves like the Little Drummer Boy, with no gift to give? Join us to uncover all that you have to offer to yourself and the world.
Thu, Nov 09Provo Public LibraryNov 09, 2023, 6:30 PM – 10:00 PM MSTProvo Public LibraryHow does gratitude impact our health and our relationships? This is an opportunity to explore how being thankful is foundational to happiness..
Thu, Nov 02Zoom. Link sent to registered participantsNov 02, 2023, 7:00 PM – 8:30 PM MDTZoom. Link sent to registered participantsA follow up to the As I Am men's retreat, where men will learn how to gain clarity in their relationships.
Thu, Nov 02ProvoNov 02, 2023, 7:00 PM – 8:30 PMProvo, 2717 N Edgewood Dr, Provo, UT 84604, USAThis is an evening of vulnerability-exploring how we come across to others, what sorts of things trigger us off and deciding what we want to keep or change about ourselves.
Sun, Oct 15ZoomOct 15, 2023, 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM MDTZoomThis is a by invitation only meeting for the men and staff that attended the As I Am men's retreat in Smithfield, Utah in October of 2023. The Zoom link will be sent in a separate email to those who respond.
Thu, Oct 12Provo Public LibraryOct 12, 2023, 6:30 PM – 9:00 PM MDTProvo Public LibrarySay what you mean and mean what you say. Sounds simple enough, and yet how often do we trip on our words, worrying more about what the other person is thinking, instead of focusing on whether or not our words truly reflect who we are and what we are trying to say?